We spoke with therapist the other day. She suggested a daily calendar which we have done. And a "sit down" meeting to go over the calendar.
Great idea. Having a regular discussion to look out at the day or week would also facilitate communication and help eliminate confusion. Have you tried a digital calendar on Google or Apple? You each have your own and share out to each other, so you can see both. Makes logistics and scheduling much easier. I use it even for just me and the kids to mark their events in different colors.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
The therapist explained how important communication is. How can she expect me or her to read each others mind.
Hopefully this IC is helping on the communication front - sounds like with examples of the groceries and baby time you two need to get better in this area.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
Other than that things are ok.
No offense, and wishing you all the best, but not sure this is true. You have some major issues to work out.
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