Horrible news about your coworker's son. I can't even imagine. My heart goes out to her.
Good decision on hockey guy. He's still legally married...even if his relationship really is 100% done he still has a lot of healing to do and isn't ready to be with someone.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21