I wasnt suggesting a Honda was cheap. I have one, a Toyota too. I can afford german, but I am practical too.
No offense taken - I was just pointing out how my perspective changed post-BD/D. For my entire life I've been financially conservative, saved large percentage of salary and invested it, drove a car for 10+ years to get the most value out of it (when my friends have newer fancier ones...etc.), but that's not always attractive either. After my ExW moved out I bought a brand new real nice SUV. A bit of a 180 and not that a car is the biggest factor but an example of upgrading a part of life to be more attractive.
Originally Posted by Mach40
Ex sent me a text, wishing I have a good Christmas. I responded, you too. And then she responded she worries about me. I have not responded, not sure what the hell that means. Everything as of late has just been business, in reality..
I think the short "You too" response to the "have a good Christmas" is fine, but I'm with Dawn70, DnJ, and kml on the no response to "she worries about you" comment. She fired you as H and she shouldn't be your shoulder to lean on emotionally, and you shouldn't be hers. Let her alone with the feelings.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21