Mach40,
Originally Posted by Mach40
I wasnt suggesting a Honda was cheap.
I have one, a Toyota too.
I can afford german, but I am practical too.
No offense taken - I was just pointing out how my perspective changed post-BD/D. For my entire life I've been financially conservative, saved large percentage of salary and invested it, drove a car for 10+ years to get the most value out of it (when my friends have newer fancier ones...etc.), but that's not always attractive either. After my ExW moved out I bought a brand new real nice SUV. A bit of a 180 and not that a car is the biggest factor but an example of upgrading a part of life to be more attractive.

Originally Posted by Mach40
Ex sent me a text, wishing I have a good Christmas. I responded, you too.
And then she responded she worries about me. I have not responded, not sure what the hell that means.
Everything as of late has just been business, in reality..
I think the short "You too" response to the "have a good Christmas" is fine, but I'm with Dawn70, DnJ, and kml on the no response to "she worries about you" comment. She fired you as H and she shouldn't be your shoulder to lean on emotionally, and you shouldn't be hers. Let her alone with the feelings.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21