Wolfman Moving Forward 5

[Wolfman]

We spoke with therapist the other day. She suggested a daily calendar which we have done. And a "sit down" meeting to go over the calendar. She brought up how she feels like i take her for granted. She also talked about how upset I got the day when i asked for her food stamp card to go out and buy her water. She told me no. Basically that she didn't trust me with it. Not sure what i am going to do, buy lobster? She has let me use it before. I explained to the therapist why i got so mad at this. I said there is a double standard. She can tell me know and do what she wants but if i do it, there is a problem. The example I gave her, the other day we were at a friends house and eating pizza on their front porch. I grabbed some plates to throw them out in the house, She asked me to take the baby to throw out the garbage. I said no, why would i bring the baby with me to throw out garbage. To make a long story short, she was mad at me for saying no. I said so she can tell me no, yet if i say no, there is a problem. The therapist asked her why i would take the baby to throw out garbage? She said she needed a break with the baby. She said did you tell him that? She said no. The therapist explained how important communication is. How can she expect me or her to read each others mind. It "opened' gf eyes a little about the double standard.

Other than that things are ok.