Originally Posted by Spiral
I just like to go out with someone once a week for dates that last 5 to 7 hours. I'm happy to do it for as long as its fun and I prefer to do that with one person at a time. I'm willing to and do text in between dates. But after about 4 or 5 months of that, women ask where its going and there's a disconnect between my long-term plans and theirs.

Spiral
yup. makes sense to me!
personally I seem to have become quite adept at "safe dating" but I don't even bother doing that anymore. Way more effort than I can muster. Plus for me that usually includes live music and there's nothing I really want to see right now touring in my area.


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

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A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
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