Spiral - to clarify what I mean - this isn't a judgment, just a question ... a more precise parsing of the term R ... to me, what you're describing is what I would define as an interlude - something light, fun and definitely not long term.

Something most of us (if we were ruthlessly honest about it) would be more comfortable experiencing when first dipping a toe in the dating pool (or puddle)


Hope that is more clear.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver