It only took me 20 months to finally hear what so many of you have said
Stop putting my life on hold
Life is too short
Standing for your M is not standing still
I cannot nice her back
Do not look back at this time as a waste
But a time of renewal and rebirth
You can only get there by solidly - and I mean 100% - focusing on YOU.
There are a lot of people who are still here - old timers - who are standing still, even now.
BOTTOM LINE: We can only control ourselves. We can't make things better, but we sure as hell can make things 1000% worse. Stay in your own lane, think about what you really want, what makes you tick, post BD. A BD is a life-changing event. You are not the same person you were one minute before that happened. Find out who Mike is post BD. Focus your attention there. The rest will flow.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
