I want to write in defense of guys in their 40s who want "to enjoy their freedom." It isn't necessarily about only wanting to pursue the physical part (although I'm sure that is it for some guys). Personally, I find my freedom enchanting. However, I only want to invest so much of myself in a relationship. But I truly enjoy going out on romantic dates, talking and getting to know all about someone new, and shamelessly flirting in person, on the phone, and over text. It's just that I also want the relationship to end.
Spiral
Let me clarify. Freedom is beautiful. We should all have it. I have it.
What I mean is these are men who want to invest nothing . They have been “trapped” in a marriage and haven’t been single according to them. They want a date once every few weeks and on the in between just kind of disappear. It’s been my experience anyways.
But basically you want a relationship; but you want it to end? I don’t understand that. Can you clarify?
