Wolfman Moving Forward 5

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Wolfman,

She said she has a crazy proposition. She said she thinks I should go on dates with other women.

Uh oh. This is a major red flag. Seems like around here typically that proposition is the precursor to she's already found someone she wants to date, or at least wants to find someone she wants to date.

I felt like this was some kind of trap.

Sounds like it could be. The thing is you can't control her, you can only do you - so keep DB'ing.

i told her i would not do that. i said our focus is to work on our relationship not add other complexities to the situation.

Good to state it. Now you need to step back and DB like a madman.

Deep down this made me feel like she was projecting, she wants to go out and see what else is out there.

Seems likely.

Wolfman - You're in a tough situation. I don't envy it. Remember the principles...give space, detach, try to find acceptance of the situation and inner peace, and improve yourself. All you can do is control you.