Boundary after big D part five

[BL42]

Mach40,

Thanksgiving and Christmas are the worst, then New Years and Valentines throw daggers at your heart.

Sounds like you're struggling a bit right now with the Holidays. Sorry. It can be tough.

But, White Knight Syndrome kicked in. I am holding the reigns on this horse I am riding. Not going to help. Ex mentioned it when we took our pet into Vet for some help. I held my tongue. , and said I know you, you will make it work and I know its real tough.. Did the best I could. Still its tough. She did not ask for a thing.. Nothing..

Good. She moved out and you're divorced and she's dating another man - no need to bail her out financially.

Not to take away, but both of my daughters came over after their shindig with their Momma, Grandpa and Aunt and Uncles.

That's awesome. Sounds like you've really made a positive impact on their life.

Ex texted and said " I hate that the family is broken like this" right after getting there for their big dinner

Hope you didn't respond. It was her decision. She just texted you to assuage her guilt.

and her boyfriend was there too..

New guy, I do envy, as he gets to have all the benefits of being with the whole family during Christmas.. Not that he is family, yet?, but he gets to see it and experience it.

That hurts. Sorry man. Keep in mind he's been in the picture for a brief moment compared to your decades. He could very well be gone next Thanksgiving. And even if he's not you're gonna be feeling much better regardless.


Mach40 - How's the GAL going? Are you meeting any guys to hang out with?