Mikey P if you are going to play fantasy land that how about if you wouldn’t have done so many things for her to yell and scream at you then you wouldn’t be here?
How can you change that moving forward?
I’m not sure how that’s playing “fantasy land”? Maybe I should have said if she would have spoken up more. Better? Actually this entire phase of my life is fantasy land isn’t it? I believe I’ve been working on changing that going forward but then I’m told to stop trying to nice her back. Which is it?
Mikey P my point was wishing she spoke up is a fantasy because it didn’t happen. Wanting her to commit to the marriage now is a fantasy. Control what you can control like working out, setting goals, starting new hobbies and reading books on attraction.
