The ex doesn't see me bring anyone home. No one ever does. And it isn't a different model each weekend. It's the same one and the model is one of a few people that I follow on social media. If anyone cared enough to check out the social media, then they'd know. These days following one another on social media and appearing in IG stories is an essential part of dating. So, if the ex cares enough to stalk my social media, then she knows. If not, then she doesn't.
BL,
There aren't any negative financial consequences. We're locked in. But the ex does have access to things like health insurance and family memberships until the divorce is finalized. And I pay for more things than I have to. So, staying married is probably a little bit sweeter deal for her.
Perhaps I shouldn't, but I say thank you and accept the gifts and food she brings.
Kind18,
She is definitely not falling in love with me again. There's nothing that suggests she is. But I think that you're absolutely right and I understand why she'd prefer it. I just cannot understand why OM would tolerate this development after all that he has invested into the relationship.
LH,
In my experience, you're usually right. I might not agree at first, but I do in the end. Like that time you wrote early on that my ex wasn't done with me. I thought you were wrong. And look where I am three years later.
