Nothing Left To Try

[BL42]

Spiral,

Yes, at the end of the process, I find myself married with no more divorce actions pending and she actually decided to withdraw the proceedings.

So are there any negative financial implications for you staying married? Or do you have any sort of legal separation agreement? I mean, she's not still entitled to half of your 1% income bracket earnings over the last 3 years, is she?

She's also started texting me much more frequently, bringing me food, expressing regret, and things like that.

Interesting. How do you respond? Do you entertain it at all?

What's hard for me to understand is why OM is willing to put up with it.

As for OM he is like most men and is just happy to have a gf.

I'm willing to guess LH nailed it. She affair'd down and he's just happy to be with someone and doesn't have the guts to call her out on it. Must give you a bit of validation to have her reaching out and know you're on the better end of it.