br, my wife was having an affair with a coworker from December until April without me knowing. I had know idea. In hindsight there were signs but I wasn’t looking. It started as an EA and I’m positive it turned physical despite her denial. I’m only telling you this so you can be prepared for the worst. It’s a hard thing to deal with. My wife still works with him and it [censored]. Be ready and try to mentally prepare. Not sure how to you do that, good luck.
