I hate to say this, but you need to mentally prepare yourself for the possibility - and probably likelihood - that your wife is having an affair, at least emotionally if not physically (and don't take comfort in an EA, which is just as bad if not worse than PAs for women). I know at least Kind18 said this above but almost every single situation on this board has some sort of affair factor...even when the poster swears up and down that one couldn't possibly be happening. I'm talking like 98%. I know that's tough to hear, but want you to have a realistic picture of what's going on.
Sorry you're in this situation. It's one of most difficult things people go through in their life. But it's good you came here for support - there are a lot of folks who know what you're going through and want to help.
I'm going to read your thread and respond in detail later, but wanted to chime in briefly now to show support.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
