A lot of times I only care how others feel. I hate making others feel bad or that I let them down. So a lot of times I just suck it up and worry about the other person.
Do you see how disingenuous this can be? you're not being forthcoming about your needs, which ultimately breeds resentment and problems in relationships.
You guys really need to work on your communication with a professional.
Why do you think you make others' feelings a priority over your own? This is worth exploring in IC.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21