She didn’t leave last night. We had a long talk. She apologized for many of the things she has done. How she speaks to me, he fits of anger, how affectionate she is. But to me those are just words. Let’s see if these are real changes. She likes to say, she wants to feel like my woman. And when she says that she refers to her and my son. Making her a priority. So I said to her, make me feel like your man. Appreciate how hard I work, appreciate what I give to this family. I said to her when was the last time I did a single thing for me. I am always doing something for her or my 2 sons. When I asked that question, she said nothing. I said really tell me the last time I did something for myself. I even go to the gym at 5am this way I can be home after work to help her with the baby. I hate getting g up that early. She had nothing to say and then said I don’t remember the last time you did something for yourself. I get up at 4:30 am and go till 9pm everyday. What more does she want for me. I made her aware from day 1 I had kids and they were active. I guess she is realizing that a parents life with active kids is dedicated to the kids 95% of the time. She doesn’t agree with that. But she says that because it’s not her son who is active. If she can ever learn to make my son to feel like her own, she would look at life differently and our relationship would be a lot better. When my son is not around she is sweet as pie and happy. Once he comes around she is a whole other person. Jekyll and Hyde.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20