Originally Posted by LH19
Be the man Mikey P wants to be and the rest will work itself out.
So NOW you have a chance to do some self reflection.

Lets take the hair cut (Just for example). Do you have it cut the way she likes, or the way you like? Have you even thought about it? Maybe there is a different style that you would like. Maybe in the past, you ran the ideas past her. Now, you just make a decision based on what you want, and do it. No running it past her or thinking what she would think. Same with new clothing style, shoes, hobbies, the way your bedroom is decorated.

Too many guys let fear control them during this stage. Don't be like them.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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