A lot of good advice, thanks everyone. It absolutely did not feel good to "let her have it". One of those moments where it just comes out, nothing good about it at all. I don't expect her to stop talking to other men, I just don't like the similarities in the men or talking about our personal stuff. I've never been a jealous person before this, I don't particularly care for it. I asked and didn't get the answer I wanted concerning the other men, that's what I like about the forum. Sometimes I need to told I'm wrong and I welcome it. Thanks again.
Mike, DBing is about self control. Letting someone have it and that it just came out means you have a 180 opportunity. A goal should be that you never do anything that you don't make a conscious decision to do. You cannot DB without being in total control. DBing is counter-intuitive, and therefore just letting yourself do something probably will not be something you should do.
Now that's all easier said than done. Which is why you strive to do the best you can, and understand you will slip up.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
