Wow. 5-6 hours away from his own child? Did you finalize the divorce and custody yet? If not, get on that ASAP.
I'm sure it is daunting. How are you dealing with the news?
Thanks BL42 for writing back!
Dealing with it by talking with friends who say this may be good in the long run.
Yes, again, he has been doing the whole "I don't really want to be a parent" thing but still enjoying time with his son.
Divorce, custody is going through.I'm getting full legal/physical.
I barely have any emotional attachment to him anymore tbh, but I did ask him if it was about the girl he had a crush on when he asked for a divorce for the reason he is moving; he denied but honestly it doesn't matter and I was angry with myself for even asking. He's not even the same person I married/dated, just some babysitting ghost, but I'm anxious about what to do in case of emergency.
I messaged his aunt and uncle whom I'm very close with and live nearby, they said they would help out when I need to cover the hospital (and my nanny said she can work weekends too), but it's still such a scary time.
