Wow. 5-6 hours away from his own child? Did you finalize the divorce and custody yet? If not, get on that ASAP.

I'm sure it is daunting. How are you dealing with the news?

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21