Thanks KML! I appreciate you chiming in.

FYI, as an update this weekend: Ex took the baby saturday night per my request so I could go out with friends Sat night and also try to get the house in order before my family comes for Thanksgiving.

Today he tells me he's moving to another state. Like 5-6 hour flight away far. The one that his yoga studio is in.

I'm not entirely surprised but still shocked simultaneously. Kind of figured he'd be moving at some point but ugh - the worry about who will be there in case of emergency, etc. It's all very daunting.