Again, thank you all for providing your perspectives and advice. Even when it's conflicting, it is very helpful. It's tough leaning on friends/family for these situations because of the potential ramifications. Having opinions from people who have been through similar situations as I'm going through that do not affect my relationships with friends/family is a gift that I truly appreciate.
Even as emotionally raw as you are right now...
There is a passion for you to find peace...whatever that looks like for you.
Same with us posters...
Everyone posting to you wants the absolute best for you, and sometimes that leads to differences of opinions, and different ways of addressing things...
What works for one, will not, and should not work for another considering how differing we all are.
Every situation is entirely unique, yet so eerily similar....
We become overly passionate about our advice. And leads to things like what you read this morning.
It's all opinion as nobody here is a professional ...
We offer what we've seen, sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad....
The beauty in it, is that good or bad, it's all experience in something that the poster isn't adept at....
I respect LH's opinion, even if I don't agree with it. Because he earned his opinion the hard way, the same as everyone here posting to you.
Whatever choices that you make, just be sure that you aren't making an emotional decision, and that you have zero regrets down the road. That you feel that you did everything that you could do to save your marriage.
