So Mikey P we are going on your word that she wants to work on the marriage. Sounds like her ACTIONS say otherwise.
Yep, that’s why I struggle with her lack of effort. Anytime we talk she says she wants to make it work yet she doesn’t “do” anything. I asked her earlier today if she would take some time and think about what she needs to see happen in order for us to make it through this. She said she would. I asked, did not tell her or even that I needed her to do it. She basically came home and is doing the bare minimum I guess. No counseling, wouldn’t read the two chapters in Healing from Infidelity that are for the betrayer, instead of blocking him from her phone she deleted his number, instead of blocking him on Fb she deleted her account. Hasn’t done anything I asked for except she came home. I feel at times like she is trying to wait me out until I lose my resolve and end things. Frustrating.
Last edited by DnJ; 11/17/2210:11 PM. Reason: Corrected book title as per Mike.
