LH, I made a note in my phone from someone else's post with a quote of yours.
She needs to see me as someone of high value. She needs to view a relationship with me as something much better than a life with someone else or alone. She needs to be willing to work to win me.
I will read that daily. Should I tell her these things? Write it in a letter and give her? I told her two nights ago after I had a really hard day dealing with her being at work with him, that it's time she starts giving me a reason to keep trying. I also said that if her job is more in important than me then that tells me all I need to know and at some point, it has to be addressed. A lot of times when we have had hard conversations, she asks me if I want her to leave. I take that as her hoping I say yes because she doesn't have the nerve to do it again. I finally told her to stop asking, if I ever reach that point she will be the first to know.
