Life is short. Love is a gift.

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he could be in some kind of recovery program doing a 9th step. he could be facing a health crisis and wants to clear his conscience. the whys don't matter, as you taught me so long ago. your response is what matters, and it was perfect.

As I stated above, love is a gift and MLC can destroy that precious gift. MLC destroyed our gift of love and marriage many, many years ago. Life is short. Live your life to the fullest and if he/she decides to reconnect and wants to come home, you ultimately will be the one to decide what is best for you and your family. Please do not sit around waiting on them to wake up. This is your journey too. To reclaim the person you once were, learn new hobbies, travel, meet new people and yes, even develop a new relationship. The future is yours for the taking...grab that gold ring and let go let God have him/her for a while.

yes, quite perfect advice here.

I understand your anger and the need for constant vigilance. something newcomers don't often understand: boundaries are for us.

And what a gift you've been to many in this community that nobody wanted to be in...

Thanks for all you've done and continue to do ...

Can I get an "Amen"????