One last thing, concerning the comment about people in active affairs not having sex with the one they are cheating on. While she was seeing him and I didn’t know it, our sex life was the same as it had always been in terms of frequency, etc. Once I found out, things changed. She didn’t want to and we only did a couple of times over the period of time she was still at home seeing him and after she moved out. Don’t know that it means anything, just giving some info.
