I've said in the past I would not forgive a cheater, yet here I am trying too. Maybe I'm lying to myself and if she actually admits to it, I'll be done. I can't honestly say at this point.
One really doesn’t know what they’ll do until actually facing such a thing. My first impression from your posts, you have the capacity to forgive her cheating.
Realize it’s the deed one forgives, not the person. No one can see enough to judge; only God has that wisdom. Our best is to love the sinner and forgive the sin. It helps when you realize what you’re working towards.
Stay strong.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
