Should I push her to find a new job? Make it a requirement?
That sounds controlling. One of the things I strongly suggest is pulling back and taking some time to work on you. How you interact with her and others .
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
