In the beginning I started back to the gym and took up running. Also started fasting and cleaned up the diet. Once she came, we went to Oklahoma for a softball tournament with d13, I was a coach, and I slowly fell off the exercise and eating plan wagon. Just started back running and working out, been dealing with a long term back problem that glares up occasionally.
I’m sure the kids were suspicious, they’re smart. She actually used trips to the park and our local high school bball games with my d13 as meet ups with the other guy. S17 was angry with her when she moved out, he didn’t say it but he avoided her or barely acknowledged her when she came around.
For some reason I really want her to admit to sleeping with him, not sure why it bothers me except I know she’s lying and I want her to admit it. I’ve told her we will never make as long as she works with him and that I can only tolerate it for so long. I’m about done tolerating it.
I have read Divorce Remedy and Divorce Busting. Rereading Remedy now. I have watched every video of MWD’s I can find.