Yep, I am a nice guy, and many have taken advantage of it.. Including her, if thats what is called when she is your wife, before separation. I find it funny most women are attracted to other than nice people. I see it quite often..
So Mach and example of your NGS is for 3 years you tried to play happy holiday family with your exw to try to win her back. You find out she has a BF and it’s no more happy holidays. Do you see why this can be confusing to her. How many times has stuff like that happened over the last 32 years?