So long as you think you can handle this casual relationship, go ahead. Honestly I don’t know how you’ve survived such long stretches without sex at your age do go ahead and get some if that’s what you want. But also be careful of becoming what my friend calls “needless and wantless”. It’s okay to want things in a relationship and to express that.
You said something very key. I have a tendency to become wantless and needless in a relationship/ situationships, whatever it is. That’s where I become not true to myself. From past experiences I feel like having wants and needs is being “being needy” but it really isn’t. As long as it’s reasonable having wants and needs and expressing them is a healthy true to your self thing
