Oh boy. FTK. You’re a glutton for pain. He’s never going to buy the milk when he can get it for free.
Sadly, or not, I was thinking the same. But being a dude it’s painfully obvious what’s going on - he’s getting laid. Duh. That doesn’t mean he does not like you. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t enjoy hanging out with you. It does mean if sex were off the table he’d be gone. This is as clear as morning air.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I don’t want him to buy the milk, LH .
Okay now you’re not even being honest with yourself let alone us - but mostly with yourself. You know dang well you want a real R. You’ve wanted this FOREVER. Sadly you’re willing to except what he will give in blind hope he will change his mind or in exchange for being alone and lonely. This story is as old as time. Read “Ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives”.
How are you not going against everything you SAY you want and will do. These have been your words, not ours. You have said you dint want FWB - which is exactly what this is. I’m not saying it’s wrong or bad. I’d love it. It’s exactly what I WANT. It’s never been what you want and it still is not.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
