Lh, there is no more to this than what I’m sharing . Triple H, no labels. Nothing more, nothing less. Also, the last 25 years of my existence hasn’t been about finding a partner. Don’t know where you got that from. The last 15 Years of my life have been about surviving, raising my daughter, building my career, nurturing friendships and living life. Sure, did I want a partner? Yes. Did I exist for that purpose, god no. I see things differently now that I am older, my daughter is almost on her way to college and I have been living as a single woman for 15 years. Life looks different to me.
KML, I think the my problem i have with attachment is it feels worse when things end when it’s good. That’s what hit me hard the last time. Things were good. But I handled it just fine.
Our religious /political differences are not hard stops. Actually, it is so refreshing to have an intelligent informed conversation where we are both open to each other’s views and opinions. We have healthy conversations. He’s a smart guy.
I am definitely not putting more into this than I’m getting out of it. I would say it’s a pretty equal amount of energy. He has his life, his hobbies and his friends. And I have mine. And when we can, we come together.
