I said it was the same “9:00 stuff every night” and I was getting tired of it (this is her sneaky time to be buried on her phone).
" I am sorry W not tonight I need some space to think".
Originally Posted by Doug54
She feigned indignation and I said she wasn’t in on the marriage and I was over it.
What was her response to you saying she wasn't in on the marriage?
Originally Posted by Doug54
I made reference to sleeping apart and separate bank accounts where she pays for her boob job and phone bill.
Not necessarily a bad thing to tell her. The question is did you say it out of emotion and did you mean it?
Originally Posted by Doug54
Terrible DBing, but I feel tired of kicking the can down the road.
What do you mean kicking the can down the road?
Originally Posted by Doug54
Didn’t Sandi advocate boundaries and consequences for wayward wives?
Yes! Sandi and I do/did not give advice straight out of the DB book.
Originally Posted by Doug54
We definitely have no mobility for separate living arrangements right now but I’m ready to pull some of the cake away.
Doug you have to tell me what your goals are right now. Are you trying to get your kids through a specific time in their lives or are you trying to draw your W back to the marriage?
