I got annoyed tonight after I had made dinner and then taken the younger two kids to the library while W ran … the issue arose when I was heading out to go for a walk and she said she had “homework” and couldn’t I get them to bed? I said it was the same “9:00 stuff every night” and I was getting tired of it (this is her sneaky time to be buried on her phone). She feigned indignation and I said she wasn’t in on the marriage and I was over it.

I made reference to sleeping apart and separate bank accounts where she pays for her boob job and phone bill. Terrible DBing, but I feel tired of kicking the can down the road. Didn’t Sandi advocate boundaries and consequences for wayward wives? We definitely have no mobility for separate living arrangements right now but I’m ready to pull some of the cake away.


Me:43 W:43
M:16 T:18
SD:21 SS:18
S:14 S:8 S:5