BL42, you're right. I struggle with trying to make sure I say the "right" thing. I don't like making mistakes and I feel I've made several recently. Yesterday I told myself to pause and think about what, if anything, I say in response to W. So I spend 4 hours debating the 20 total words I sent her today. Funny to think about it that way.
And this morning she was stringing me along by telling D4 how handsome I looked and asking her if I should be a model lol. I didn't say anything, but it's nice knowing that she'll be missing out on a much improved person inside and out.