Thanks DnJ. To my knowledge W has no intention of getting a L, has no way to pay for it that I know of, and I believe her intent, as she has said a few times to me is to copy her friend's recent D and work through things together.
You very well may be responsible for her lawyer fees.
Originally Posted by DW17
Her friend and her ex just paid a lawyer $750 to make sure everything was square before filing.
Sounds like she has a smart friend.
Originally Posted by DW17
I would have no issue with that except I know we won't agree on anything and I would rather sell our house prior to D.
How do you know? Not much to agree on unless you are talking about personal property.
Originally Posted by DW17
W wants to D, then live together until D18 leaves next Aug/Sep for college.
Why doesn't she stay with mom until then?
Originally Posted by DW17
None of that makes sense to me.
Why?
Originally Posted by DW17
Then I guess sell the house at that point?
Do you want to keep the house?
Originally Posted by DW17
I haven't heard of anyone else doing that. If she wants a D, then just leave.
I lived with my ex for 15 months after she filed.
Originally Posted by DW17
I do see what you're saying about being upfront about it. Custody of my daughter and whatever spousal support/child support I'd be paying is way more important to me than any lawyer fees and it's weird that W apparently doesn't think so.
Well it's all a calculation you should be able to figure out yourselves.
Originally Posted by DW17
Or maybe she's just hoping I'll agree to a terrible plan, the same way I was hoping she'd suggest one.
