LH19 that's what was weird about her response. I didn't really set any boundaries, but she’s used that word at various times and I’m not sure what exactly she is referring to. I don’t think she does either.
That’s what I’m trying to say! It’s just another contemporary buzz term. Like triggered or micro-aggression, or self care and all the other nonsense. She’s just throwing out terms that she likely heard but can’t define because the definitions are often nebulous.
Boundaries really do only hold back cattle. The rest of us go under, over, around or through the “boundary” unless there is a consequence in place.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
