Too much guilt, too much needy, to much looking to her, for your answers....
Maybe something like....
I've decided that I will longer allow myself to live in an open marriage. I feel that for now, our current living situation isn't working for anyone in this house except for you, and it would be best that you find another place to live that could possibly better suit your needs.
Starting today, I will be doing household duties for the week, and until you have a firm move out date, then we will rotate these duties until the time comes that we have a legal agreement in place for the future. I have started a google calendar that will show coverage for each of us so that we can provide constant care for our children. Please use it for their benefit. (link to calendar).
I have also decided that the only communication that I will be entertaining with you is kids and bills. Please keep your emails and texts exclusively to those particular areas only. Anything other than that will be discarded and deleted.
Additionally, please refrain from anything that would resemble Parent Alienation in front of our children. not only is it illegal, it is very discerning to our children to hear that you find humor in the destruction of their family unit.
Thank you for your cooperation in this.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712