I’ll chime in. My thought yesterday was, wow, THIS is a colossal mess! Sadly that’s not helpful but this really is a cautionary tale for others to avoid. She is really psst. At what I’m not sure. At life in general perhaps? At the situation she finds herself in? She’s also very immature and acting like an entitled bbbbbbb. But why? Is that who she is and always was? She’s clearly acting out. It’s not the specific item she’s actually upset about. The item is the excuse to show her anger about what she’s really mad about. She’s not mad about the bath. If she doesn’t want you to have a previous life or previous children, she should have thought about that before.

So now you have two women, who you have children with, really mad at you. It appears history has repeated. Again, why? This is way beyond our job description to deal with. I agree with Ginger, KML, LH, and others. I’d be VERY CAREFUL with her. I’d also not appease and reward her bad behavior. I would try to find out why she’s acting like this. If it’s within your control to address I’d do what I can. If it’s because it’s who she is you may have to cut your losses, again, and get out. Then get a V and do not under any circumstances get into yet another R until you do a huge amount of work on yourself. You chose two really bad women and sitchs and/or helped to create them. Why? How? Once again the biggest losers here are the 3 children.

I’m very sorry for you and all involved but this is BAD. Be very careful. You are going to need to look at this and decide, is this how you want to live the next 17 years until baby is 18? Is this the life you want between now and dead?


DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D