KML, sorry it turned out to be a fracture. I'll trust your judgment on that.
Makes sense that hearing about CMM would trigger him if he was a caregiver for a sister who passed away from cancer. Spa Guy has good taste in women AND music. Sounds truly promising if he weren't avoidant! I wonder if it's something he's working on? Attachment styles are formed in childhood, but when we're aware of our tendencies, we can push back against them. I'm slowly going through an online course on my attachment style--ironically while I'm single, unattached, and not looking!