Wolfman moving forward 4

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Wolfman,

That's a tough read. Sounds like you're going through a lot.

At least based on the way you describe it, it seems like GF needs to mature a bit. Unless you promised her you'd take care of bath time and then didn't follow through, especially because of the events of the day with your son, I don't think it's unreasonable for you to take a few minutes to call him while GF is doing bath night with the little one. It almost sounds like you're apologizing in an effort to keep the peace as opposed to really genuinely doing something wrong. I've said this to you before but you're in for a continued rocky road with GF until she accepts that while her and your baby are important you also have two other children that also need to be a priority.

Try to avoid heated interactions but if they happen make sure to keep recording them...she already called the police on you once. You don't want a charge to interfere with your relationship with your baby (or other kids).