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[Wolfman]

Hello everyone. Sorry it has been so long. Sometimes it is so hard for me to get on here. A lot has happened since the last time. I don't even know where to begin. I have had problems with the ex problems with the gf. Sometimes I just want to run away. I know that will not solve anything but I just need a break from it all. UGH. 2 weeks ago had a horrible day. Let me explain...
It was 2 Wednesdays ago. It was a day gf and i have therapy. We do it at 2:30. So normally I leave work 5 minutes early to make it on time. My son, I pick up from school at 4:30 (he plays middle school football). Everyday I must get at least 10 phone calls from telemarketers. I never answer unless I know the number. It was 2pm, I was driving home, my phone rings it says public service. I figure another spam call. 2 minutes later the number comes up again, I am thinking, this is a persistent telemarketer. I get home 4 minutes before our appointment with therapist (we do it through the computer). During the session my phone pings that I got a text. I don't look at my phone during session time. I do not want to be distracted. When the session ends at 3:30, I check my phone and its my son. He sent me texts saying practice was cancelled (it was a beautiful sunny day) and that he needed me to pick him up. I text him immediately, where are you? He said he is at his mom's house and that he tried calling me to tell me. The number that i thought was a telemarketer was the school number. He doesn't have a cell phone that he takes to school. S he called me in advance to tell me it was cancelled but i didn't pick up. Now I tell gf what happened and she is annoyed. She is annoyed because she is supposed to meet her friend at the gym, but now I will have to pick up my son from the police station, she doesn't want me to take the baby with me, so she is going to have to miss the gym. She even says why do you have to get him today? Just let him stay with his mom, he is there already and you will see him tomorrow. I said its my day and I would like to see my son. Now she is angry that she wont be able to go to the gym. She won't put the baby in the gym day care either. I text my son, ask mom to bring you to the police station. He said can you ask her. I said sure. Just as I was about to email her, she emailed me, that I didn't pick up our son today, and now she won't be able to bring him to the police station. I tell my gf this, then her whole toon changed. She says she can't do that, its your day. (I am saying this here, now to get even with the ex she is ready to "fight" her.) Gf says call the cops see if they can help you get him. I told her I doubt it, but I will try. The cops said they can go to her house ask for her to release him him, thats it. They can't drag him out of the house. I said thats fine. I meet the cops around the block from the house, gf comes in a separate car. They knock on the door but no one was home. They asked if I wanted to file a report, I said yes to document that i did not get my son on my day. Afterwards, gf and I went out to get some dinner. Everything was fine with us. We get home its around 8:20, she is giving the baby a bath. I check my email and see that the ex sent me another email. This one was about how I didn't answer the phone, how my son is responsibility on my day. Blah blah blah. So I read the email to gf and she says, you should ask your son where they were? I said well I have to call him now anyway. I'll see if he says anything. So, I call him for 3 minutes, literally. Just before I am about to finish the conversation, gf says lets go baby has to come out of the bath with an attitude(everyday I help her get baby out of bath, she can do it, I just like to help) I got off the phone with my son. I said there was no need for the attitude, you just had to ask me like you always do and I would have gotten off the phone sooner, I did not know you were done. She was annoyed that I called my son during baby's bath time and that was supposed to be family time, yet she was the one who told me to ask my son where they were when i called him. She started to go on how I put "them" first,I should have called after bath time. I said you are right I should have waited, I do apologize. Hopefully trying to diffuse the situation, but she kept going. How it was wrong of me to call now, she wants to feel like her and the baby are first. I already apologized, I didn't know what to say anymore. I sadi you are right I don't want to argue anymore. Then she said, oh you are going to dismiss me now!!?? I said no, I made mistake and i apologized for it, I just don't want to argue anymore about this.She just kept going, repeating herself. Finally I snapped and I started to yell at her. To stop, i can't take this arguing anymore. Unfortunately, the baby started to cry (which I feel horrible about) she picked up the baby and ran downstairs and said she is afraid of me. She doesnt want me to hurt her or the baby. Are you kidding me!!!!??? I have never laid a finger on her or the baby. She is trying to push my buttons because my ex did the same thing and knows how much that upsets me, because i would never and I have never. She starts recording me so I take my phone out and start recording too. She is afraid of me yet she now goes back upstirs into the babies room. Telling me not to hurt them. Ugh. Then she started to ramble on about what a terrible person I am. Finally I said if I am this bad and you are this afraid then leave. So, she grabbed the baby and went out into the car. After about 2 minutes Of her sitting in the driveway I went out there to talk to her. She wound up coming back in the house and we spoke for a while...

More to come a lot to digest.