^^^^^ that situation up there is ideal. But for 2 parents trying to build new lives it’s nearly an impossible situation and financially to have 3 residences . Shared home and 2 separate homes . On paper, it’s great, in reality, it never works and certainly doesn’t work forever .
Again, I think maybe my kids got lucky. She’s always had 2 homes and never lived any other way. Both are her home. She never really packed a bag either. She had what she needs at my home and his. Parents were always on time and she never had to question if either of us would show up. She sleep like a log at both houses.
I don’t take all the credit for this . My ex has done his part.
I really do think it comes down to 2 parents doing the right thing, even if it’s the wrong situation.
