The irony is that these very children absolutely need to become resilient in order to survive the maelstrom these f'd up souls create.
I think the point G and I am trying to make is it doesn't have to be a maelstrom. That's up to the parents. In a bizarre way we are still a family who live in different homes that happen to be very peaceful. Yep it gets annoying from time to time when they have to pack everything up and go to the next house. But I also bet it is annoying when kids have to go home wondering if there parents are going to be at each other's throats or why their parents aren't speaking to one another.