it's not about needing to be resilient; resilient is the word used by the people blowing up others' lives in their quest for their elusive personal happiness. It's the justification used by parents who are putting their own selfishness ahead of the needs of their children.

The irony is that these very children absolutely need to become resilient in order to survive the maelstrom these f'd up souls create.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver