Mach raises a good point. A peaceful home is best, for sure, but parents will never really know what was going on in the inner life of their kids until much later. My son is going to be 23 in a short time. He didn't really start telling me what his experience of divorce was like until he was well past high school.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver