It’s weird to say, but I’m “lucky” . Divorce happened before my child knew a 2 parent Home. Way before. I remember her pain during her handoffs when she was a toddler/preschooler. But she doesn’t. It’s all she has ever known and she’s an amazing kid with minimal Scarring. She has a dad and a mom who get along.
I’m lucky. I don’t know much she has had to know “resiliency” because she has t had to bounce back. It’s like someone who was born deaf. They dont know what it is like to hear, and they can’t miss it.
