Wait until next time she sees OM. Move all her stuff downstairs. Send her a text - “I want to make this marriage work, but you don’t. I respect your choices. I would prefer you find somewhere else to live. My lawyer will be in touch.” And no discussions. Don’t answer her call, her text, don’t talk to her. You engage, you lose.
Originally Posted by DW17
.... Her drinking friend came over for a minute and they went to their weekly bar trip. She said she might be back later but might not. After I put D4 to bed, it was a good opportunity for some bedroom redecorating. Moved her stuff downstairs...
Originally Posted by ”BL42”
So DW17...what was her reaction, if any, to the bedroom reorganization? Any fallout or did she just accept it?
Originally Posted by DW17
She was pissed initially. She said not to touch her stuff, called me controlling, said I was emotionally abusive, etc. She only asked one direct question, “Why did you move my stuff.” I responded “You know why and I’ll leave it at that.” She asked again and I responded the same and then left the room. She hasn’t questioned the why since. She has said a few times, including this morning how petty it was. I did not react/respond to her words.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
